A moving post 

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This message is a very moving one to me. We all have experienced this at one time or another. We all struggle to get back up and continue forward. The key as stated below, is learning from one’s mistakes and remaining positive.

This is one I’ve struggled with lately. It has been hard to remain positive when life knocks you down.

Remember to learn, love and grow!

TJ

#Repost @henrycavill (@get_repost)

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We’ve all been hurt, we’ve all got it wrong, trusted the wrong person, made the wrong bet, turned the wrong way, made THAT mistake. What we’ve experienced is important, it defines us. But what is more important, and often forgotten, is that we decide how it defines us. The experience, decision or moment itself does not. Others will almost always try and define you by past transgressions more quickly than your past successes.

I’ve made mistakes, I’ve been someone I’m not proud of plenty of times. I’ve fallen down. I’ve loved the wrong person. I’ve failed. I’ve been hurt. I’ve hurt. That’s life! In life we are going to get it wrong….alot. What I’ve tried to do and still try to do each time though is recognise those mistakes and mould them to my advantage. Make them a way to better myself. We’ve all had a bad experience thanks to someone else. Don’t let that bad experience decide how and who you are. Don’t let it hold you back from love or success or giving something a go. Don’t vent your pain onto or at others in an attempt to bring them down and hold them back and cry your fury to the world. Don’t let it turn you into the monster that hurt you.

Use that experience! Run with it. Take the sum of your past and make it your tool to approach the future with. Move forward and love the experiences you have, use them to define you and make you the best version of yourself that is humanely possible. Your life is yours and will be whatever you want it to be. Love, grow, pursue, strive, challenge yourself.
Be afraid so that you can be brave.

The video above is what positive forward motion, determination, bravery, strong will, dedication and self respect looks like. This is my Lucy. She is one of the best stunt women in the world. She has defined herself. She continues to define herself. She grows, everyday. She is Lucy Cork because she says so.
#learning #mistakes #henrycavill #lucycork #love #grow #positive

Equine Love

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Hello all,

I have loved horses since I was nine years old. It was like a switch came on. One day I was afraid of the them, the next I loved them. I did the usual reading and watching movies about horses and I took lessons. When I met a girl down the street from me, I had access to horses several times a week. Through her family, I learned about horse care and more about riding. I was introduced to horse showing and trail riding.

After I moved away, horses were harder to be around. It wasn’t until after high school that I picked up a part time job caring for horses at a private boarding place. When I left that place, I leased my first horse. An American quarter horse by the barn name of Bear. Registered name of Sugar Flash Clark. A great grandson of Doc Bar on top and Sugar Bars on the bottom. He was a gentle bombproof horse.

I wound up buying him and owned him for five wonderful years. When I had outgrown him and my goals had changed, I sold him to a wonderful woman who owned him for the rest of his life. Colic claimed him at age 28.

An interesting story is the day that the woman who bought Bear called me about him was the same day I was going to look at my next and current horse. She fell in love with Bear and bought him. I fell in love with my next horse, but the current owner was out of town. When he returned four days later, I bought him and went to pick him up.

The horse I bought was a three year old quarter horse. His barn name at the time was Webster. The owner had just gotten him registered. Late as far as papered horses go. His registered name is Argyles Sensation. I changed his barn name to Blaze. He is a grandson of Investment Asset through his dam. Through his sire he is a great grandson of Two Eyed Jack.

I bought him as a show horse and have shown him only about a dozen times. I do trail ride with him but he is happier as a show horse. For years I kept him in a show barn, under lights and blanketed. Now he’s a pasture horse and loves it. He lives with two donkeys and one or two other horses. Loves not being cooped up in a stall up to 12 hours a day.

On March 16th, he reached his 14th birthday. He is just as sweet and affectionate as he was at three.

My love of horses had to transfer into my novel, so Mary became a horse trainer. The horses became supporting characters in their own right. Each horse in my life and my stories have distinct personalities and it shows. I loved how Ghostly Image, in JAM, made her story and voice be heard. She developed a tight bond with Mary. And even developed a bond with Jordan too. Ghost’s role in the story became bigger than I intended.

TJ

Pictures and Words

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Pictures or memes can sum up a situation nicely. In JAM, Mary has a hard life until she turns it around. I saw this meme and thought it described her perfectly. This is exactly what Mary did with her life. Until the past threatened to undo all her hard work.

https://www.amazon.com/JAM-Jordan-Mary-T-J-Lyons-ebook/dp/B01E4G25VM?ie=UTF8&*Version*=1&*entries*=0

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New Book Teaser

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JAM teaser EL

It’ #TeaserTuesday! So here is a brand new JAM teaser courtesy of my friend and colleague Eryn LaPlant.

Beautiful words spoken by #Jordan. So what did happen to #Mary? Pick up a copy of JAM today to find out.

Links:

Ebook Amazon:  https://www.amazon.com/JAM-Jordan-Mary-T-J-Lyons-ebook/dp/B01E4G25VM?ie=UTF8&qid=1462887759&ref_=tmm_kin_swatch_0&sr=1-1

Paperback Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Jam-Jordan-Mary-T-J-Lyons/dp/1530693381?ie=UTF8&qid=&ref_=tmm_pap_swatch_0&sr=

Ebook Barnes and Noble: http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/jam-tj-lyons/1123675461?ean=2940158208218

Ebook Kobo: https://store.kobobooks.com/en-us/ebook/jam-7

 

Links for JAM Jordan and Mary

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Links to purchase JAM Jordan and Mary:

Amazon Ebook: https://www.amazon.com/JAM-Jordan-Mary-T-J-Lyons-ebook/dp/B01E4G25VM?ie=UTF8&*Version*=1&*entries*=0

Amazon Paperback: http://www.amazon.com/Jam-Jordan-Mary-T-J-Lyons/dp/1530693381?ie=UTF8&qid=&ref_=tmm_pap_swatch_0&sr=

B&N Ebook: http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/jam-tj-lyons/1123675461?ean=2940158208218

Kobo EBook: https://store.kobobooks.com/en-us/ebook/jam-7

Available now! #SaddleUp and pick up your copy today! Everyone loves a delicious #JAM!

Horses, Donkeys and emotions

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In JAM, the emotions between Mary and the horses are an important part of the story. I may have stretched what Mary can do regarding horses and emotions, but there is emotion in horses and all animals.

Horses by nature are social animals. They live in groups and have a pecking order from the most dominant to the least dominant. Horses develop bonds of friendship just as people do. Some horses cannot get along with other horses and will defend their friends fiercely. When a herd member dies, the entire herd grieves. They will spend time with the body before moving on or the body is removed.

I have witnessed this first hand. In the past year and a half, two horses I knew passed on due to colic and old age. When the first when died, it was late at night, so we had to wait until the next morning for the trailer to come pick up the remains for burial. All night, the other two horses and two donkeys kept vigil over the body. The horse, the deceased’s BFF even tried to stand on him and over him to get him up.

A year later, that horse passed away. Even before he passed, my horse would stay close to him and sniff his belly and hind end. Whenever a horse is sick or not feeling well, my horse will stay close to keep them company. I believe horses can sense something that we cannot. They seemed to know and were trying in their own way to say goodbye.

That was only a few months ago. Yesterday, the remaining two horses and both donkeys had their annual vaccations. After the donkeys had their shots, they wanted nothing to do with humans around them for the rest of the day. They were mad at us for making them go through that.

The horses handled the shots better than the donkeys and had no anger towards us. My horse, Blaze needed to have his teeth filed down. Horses teeth continue to grow and domesticated horses need to have dental work done once a year to prevent their teeth from growing and making eating and wearing bits difficult. In order to do it safely, horses are sedated. Just enough to make them drowsy.

Afterwards, Blaze stood around occasionally moving, until the sedation wore off. During that time, one of the donkeys, Husker came over to check on him. (See pics below.)

One night I was there late and a found Blaze and Husker lying down side by side. So I snapped a picture. (See pics below)

So while writing JAM, I used these elements to develop the characters of Ghost and Sampson. Those two horses bonded with each other and Mary. Ghost bonded strongly with Mary and that bond is evident in the story.

JAM Jordan and Mary by TJ Lyons

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Today is the big day! JAM Jordan and Mary has been released. Jordan and Mary can’t wait to share their story with you!

Jordan Jennings Reading

Jordan has already gotten comfortable and has started reading. Who wants to join him? I know I do! I would love to curl up with him and read any book. Here he is reading his story. And he is loving it! Look at that smile!

Want to know who else is excited about JAM’s release? The horses. Yes, the horses in JAM can’t wait to tell their part of the story as well. Ghostly Image and Sampson are supporting characters in JAM. Read on to find out their part in the journey of this wonderful couple.

Thank you to everyone you has supported me in this journey! Get your copy today! Enjoy the ride!

TJ

Ghost on release day

Available at these Links:

Amazon Ebook: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B01E4G25VM

Amazon paperback: http://www.amazon.com/Jam-Jordan-Mary-T-J-Lyons/dp/1530693381/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=

Barnes and Noble EBook: http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/jam-tj-lyons/1123675461?ean=2940158208218

Kobo: https://store.kobobooks.com/en-us/ebook/jam-7